Facebook freeeee!

My husband and I had never observed Lent before. Blame it on growing up Baptist, I guess. Last year, though, I heard a few of my friends from church talking about observing Lent and how meaningful it was to them. Let's get this straight: I am NOT a fan of observing if a person just does it for tradition and has no idea what it means. Instead, it should be a meaning-filled time of reflection.

So I decided to give up Facebook. For six weeks, people! Now I hardly ever get on the computer for FB, but I had it on my phone. So I would check it first thing in the morning (baaad idea). I would check it at stoplights. I would check it while bathing the kids. All in all, I guess it had become an addiction of sorts. So time to break that habit and spend more time with God!

Here are some things I have learned in my journey: (which is about 1/2 way over today, I just realized.)

I am not the most important person on FB! I'm sure you already knew that. But since I did leave my e-mail settings on for messages (just in case someone didn't get the memo I was off and NEEDED to get in touch with me!) I have received ONE message notification in three weeks! ha!

It is okay to not know what is going on EVERY single second of EVERY single day with EVERY single of my 450ish friends. (I would check the exact number, but ya know...)
It is actually quite peacful to be away for a while.

And last but not least, anything I need before my relationship with God is NOT good. Now I am certainly not saying FB is bad. I have been able to keep in touch with family and friends that I never would keep in contact with otherwise. But do I really need to know what that random person I met at youth camp 15 years ago is doing?

So all in all, my fast has been productive and eye-opening. Will I go back and check it after Easter? Probably so, but it will definitely be a different priority in my life. Like a very low one.

So what did my husband give up for Lent, you ask? Coffee!!! Who said the whole house had to suffer for one person's sacrifice? Just kidding, it hasn't been all that bad.

Do you celebrate Lent? If so, what did you give up?

Random Child thoughts and actions

I love having children- they really do say and do the cutest things. For example, one day Landon and Ben were talking about God. Landon said, "Where is God? I want to go to his house. I want to hold him and hug him and give him five!" That just melted my heart. And it made me think- how badly do I want to go to God's house (in this instance, I'm talking about Heaven, not church), and how happy am I in my current home (earth)?

Allie is getting her own personality, as well. She just loves her baby dolls and.... her toothbrush! That's right. She will carry that thing around as long as we let her, and screams when we take it away. So she has one we let her carry, and one we brush her teeth with. Now that is not to say she doesn't get the good one, and Landon's, and mine, and Ben's whenever she has a free chance. She will drag Landon's stool around just so she can reach up on the counter! So if your toothbrush goes missing, check the Hays house!

I would love to hear cute things about your kids, or kids you know, say/do!